Frequently Asked Questions about Family Mediation

Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) is a type of mediation specifically designed to help separated or separating couples or families in resolving disputes related to parenting, property, or finances. It is a structured process led by an accredited Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner (FDRP).

At Melbourne Conflict Solutions, we use the both the terms family mediation and family dispute resolution. Both refer to a confidential and collaborative process where a neutral third party (the mediator or FDRP) helps you and the other parent talk through issues and work towards practical agreements, especially around parenting, communication and co-parenting.

FDRPs are often referred to as family mediators. An FDRP is an accredited professional authorized to conduct family dispute resolution sessions. They play a crucial role in assisting families to reach agreements and can issue Section 60I certificates when necessary. All the mediators at Melbourne Conflict Solutions are accredited FDRPs.

Family Mediation can help you work through a wide range of issues following separation or divorce. At Melbourne Conflict Solutions, we support clients to resolve matters such as:

• Parenting arrangements after separation

• Creating or updating parenting plans

• Division of property, assets and finances

• Communication difficulties between separated parents

• Co-parenting concerns and challenges

• Disagreements involving grandparents or extended family members.

  Whether you are newly separated or navigating ongoing disputes, family mediation provides a supportive space to have difficult conversations and reach workable agreements without going to court. To learn more or book a confidential chat, contact us here.

For parenting matters, the short answer is usually yes. Under the Family Law, you are generally required to attempt Family Dispute Resolution before applying to court. There are some exceptions - but in most cases the court will expect you to show you have tried mediation first.

If you can’t reach an agreement, we can issue a Section 60I certificate, which allows you to proceed to court if needed.

Learn more about parenting mediation here or contact us to talk it through.

For property and financial matters, Family Dispute Resolution is strongly encouraged before applying to court.

Mediation gives you the chance to reach an agreement about things like the division of assets, property and superannuation without the stress and cost of court. Many people find it quicker, more affordable and less emotionally draining.

Learn more about property mediation here or contact us to talk it through.

A Section 60I certificate is a document issued by an FDRP indicating that parties have attempted mediation. It’s often required before applying to the Family Court for parenting orders.

Yes, it is possible to attend family mediation if there an IVO, in place but only if the IVO allows it and if it safe and appropriate for everyone involved.

Before any mediation takes place, your FDRP will conduct a thorough assessment, including separate confidential pre-mediation meetings with each person. This helps to determine whether mediation is suitable and safe, and whether any special arrangements (like shuttle mediation or online sessions, for example) might be needed.

If mediation is not appropriate, your FDRP can issue a certificate under Section 60I of the Family Law Act so that you can proceed to court if necessary.

You can - but you don’t have to. Many people find it is often more strategic and cost effective to begin with the mediation process.

At Melbourne Conflict Solutions, we believe that mediation and legal advice often work best side by side. In your pre-mediation meeting we will help you identify what issues are on the table and where you may need legal or other expert advice

That way, if you do speak to a lawyer (or a financial advisor or a counsellor), you’ll be clear on what questions to ask - avoiding unnecessary costs and getting the most out of the support you choose.

At Melbourne Conflict Solutions, we have a trusted network of professionals we can refer you to - including lawyers, financial advisors, counsellors and others.

We look to connecting you with the right people at the right time so you can make informed decisions without getting overwhelmed or overspending.

Our fees are transparent and tailored to your needs. For detailed pricing, please refer to our Pricing Page.

We know there are many skilled and accredited mediators out there — and we’re glad there are. But what sets Melbourne Conflict Solutions apart is how we work together.

We’re a group of like-minded professionals who genuinely want to help people move forward. We’re not just here to tick boxes — we’re here for outcomes. We co-mediate wherever possible because we love working collaboratively and believe clients benefit from the insight and support of two experienced practitioners. It’s a “two-for-one” approach that delivers both strength and balance.

We also understand that life is busy, and conflict is rarely convenient. That’s why we offer flexible times and formats to suit your schedule — because your time matters, and so does getting to a resolution that works.

At Melbourne Conflict Solutions, the FDR process is as follows:

1. Initial mediation assessment meeting